She also said that she and Ivan were getting married because “I just can’t mourn your father forever. I have to move on with life.” I tell her that I graduated college and already secured employment with a local firm, and “will soon find a new place to live.” She looks thrilled. Especially the part where it looks like I’ll soon have a new place to live. Then in a patronizing way she tells me, “you always have a place in our house though, you are welcome to stay whenever you please.” Thanks, Grace, really generous of you.